Hi friends! Once you’ve exchanged “I Do’s” and you’re back from honeymoon paradise, all you have left to do is enjoy wedded bliss, right? Well…unfortunately you’ve still got a few tasks ahead of you. But don’t worry! Get them done in a timely manner and it’ll be a breeze.
Mail in your marriage license. Once it’s signed and sealed don�...
Mail in your marriage license. Once it’s signed and sealed don�...
Hi friends! Once you’ve exchanged “I Do’s” and you’re back from honeymoon paradise, all you have left to do is enjoy wedded bliss, right? Well…unfortunately you’ve still got a few tasks ahead of you. But don’t worry! Get them done in a timely manner and it’ll be a breeze.
- Mail in your marriage license. Once it’s signed and sealed don’t forget to mail that baby in! Or hand deliver to the appropriate office. Check the requirements for your particular state, of course. And be sure to request a few copies. Trust me, you’ll need ‘em.
- Change your name. If one (or both!) of you will be changing your last name, get started right after the honeymoon! I know so many couples who, even years later, are still putting off the seemingly daunting task. If you’re in a pinch, a service like MissNowMrs will help with all the lengthy paperwork.
- Deal with bank accounts and health insurance. Hopefully you had the conversation about how to handle your finances long before the big day. If you’ve decided to combine accounts, set up a new account or add each other’s names to your respective accounts, get to it! Also, look at your health insurance. Now that you’re married, you have a limited window where you can add each other to your employer’s health insurance before open enrollment begins.
- Preserve the gown. Your precious wedding dress will need some TLC after the wedding. Have it professionally cleaned and then store it somewhere away from direct sunlight, dampness or extreme temperatures. Or you can sell it!
- Make your wedding album. If you’re DIY-ing versus getting one from your photographer, start early. This is another one that I see so many couples put off for years. Do it while the excitement is still fresh. It’s also a great way to relive all those memories!
- Write those thank you cards. And get your partner to help! Thank you cards should ideally be sent no more than three months after the wedding. Pro tip: start writing them as soon as gifts begin arriving.
The key to all of this is to NOT procrastinate. And try to have some fun with it! Perhaps it’s a time to break open some of that leftover champagne, for instance.
xox,
Mindy
Header photo by Amy & Stuart Photography
