Loving What We Do Not Condone

I got the following email today and it really blessed my heart. I don’t know how God does these things through stuff I’ve written, but I’m always blessed to see people find freedom in the way God thinks, rather than clinging to religious views that only lead to false security and actions:

I picked up your book Authentic Relationships . I read through about 1/4 of the book and while reading God began speaking to me about the young man that my daughter has been living with. Without going through a lot of detail about that situation, I began to have a complete change in my heart regarding him. I have struggled with how I should relate to him if at all and what my actions would say to my daughter. I did not want to seem as though I am encouraging or agreeing with what she is doing. What I have discovered is that I can love this young man and not agree with all of his choices just as I have loved my daughter. My attitude thus far has only served to reinforce what he already thinks, that Christians say one thing and do another. This has given me such freedom that I am amazed!

I had no idea what you all are dealing with in this situation as a Mom, but I love what God has settled in your heart. It is my contention that religion cannot figure out how to love what it does not condone. In fact religion uses ‘love’ as a weapon so that we can manipulate people after our own desires. Jesus, on the other hand had the amazing freedom to love what he did not condone. His love for people and condoning their destructive choices never got confused. That’s why the world would come to him and discover the fountain of life. He could both love them where they were while he freed them from the bondages that tormented their souls.

May we be like he was in the world…

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